Collared!

I'm not really sure what to talk about in this new, personal mature (yet sometimes silly) blog about my journey through the world of transgender transition, BDSM and how they often merge. SO I have decided to open up the floor to my readers!! Actually, do I have any readers yet?? Probably not! Ermm, if you do read this a small comment would be nice just so I know I'm not talking to myself!! And like I said, I'm going to open this up to my readers!! Leave a question in my comments section and I promise a sensible reasonable answer to the best of my intellectual abilities! Don't ask me the meaning of life, try to keep on topic!! And for the record the answer is 42!!

Now, something I did want to talk about and have been struggling to find the words to articulately express it, is about collars!! The reason it is difficult subject to broach is the sheer fact that in BDSM collars have different meanings for different people and my view on them might be polar opposite to another's!

I now own three collars. One I use for play! It's thick, robust and great for restraint or control. It's also a great marker in clubs to denote my status as a submissive! Though to date, a lot of clubs I have visited it's easy to pick out the subs from the Dom/mes with or without a collar! My second collar is not so chunky and not really ideal for robust play! Good marker to show position and perfectly acceptable if you want to lead me round a club on a leash! But restraint, not so much! I'd be worried about damaging it or it damaging me! Now, my third collar is extra special and is a new addition! It was given as a gift.

Now, collars that are given as a gift can hold significant importance. But to be given one is different to receiving one. What's the difference, I hear you cry! Well, let me start by saying this is my view only! To be given a collar as a gift can hold no more importance as gift given at a birthday or christmas. It's a well thought out present from one person to another. An important treasure, yes, but not as the received collar! Which I can only compare to the wedding ring. A sign or token of commitment denoting love, trust and honour! A received collar may have no practical use, it may only be decorative band that the submissive wears 24/7 to show a bond with the Dom/me that presented them with it!

I thank Miss for the gift of the collar. It's very pretty and very comfy!!

Also, I should say that all three of my collars are pink!! I like pinks!! And purples!